It is Christmas Eve, and I am in the woods. It happens to the best of us.
While packing for my overnight parental stay, I thought to myself, “Is there even a point?”
It is not like I live in the mecca of fashion or culture where I live normally, but I take pride in putting myself together well. When putting my bag together to come spend a night with my family in the country, it was honestly harder to do than packing for a trip to the city, a show, or an event. I felt like I didn’t want to “waste” a good outfit on being in the back woods with my family, but then I came to my senses and realized that you need to dress for yourself as well as others. I refuse to let myself go just because I am chillin’ with people in holiday sweaters and winterized Crocs. Clearly I can’t sway everyone. Also - I just went shopping, and I need to break everything in.
In my new Ben Sherman overnight bag (which I thought to myself, I might as well use a Sobeys bag…Hahaha) I put in some slim fit dark wash jeans, 2 flannels, a square cut silk tie, a cardigan, and leather slip ons. I came to the realization that even my family kind of expects some sort of fashion extravaganza from me, so I better pull it out. I feel confident in my holiday wear. Good for photos, comfortable. No, it isn’t D&G 2012, but it is better than a sweater with a polar bear on it, like my Dad is currently wearing, God love him.
I guess what this made me realize, is that you really do, always, need to do things that make you happy. Do it for yourself. I think too many people dress for others, wear labels for status, and don’t care enough just because no one “important” will see them. If I am going to be in the woods, you are damn straight that I am going to look fantastic.
All I need to say is this, this one thing that is feeling REALLY prolific to me right now after a day of many conversations with many friends.
I love you all. You all know who you are, and why I feel this way. I thank you so much for your continued love, support, and patience as I conduct and explore all of this creativity I am feeling. I truly appreciate and value your friendship.